I was born in Poblacion, Maragusan, Davao De Oro. Maragusan: The Summer Capital of Davao Region, the rolling hills and rugged terrain of Maragusan climb thousands of feet above sea level. The valley is surrounded by hilly and mountainous terrain, which protects it from powerful winds blowing through Davao Oriental from the Pacific Ocean. Maragusan was my hometown that where I learn how to walk, learn how to run, learn how to count and learn how to write, read and speak. I lean so many things in Maragusan thanks to my father that teach me all the things that I need to know. Even though we are poor my father supports us with all his life with the help from his grandmother and auntie.
My father and I love basketball, we played together and watch NBA together. My father is a basketball player. Every November there are always a league in our province because in November 25 it’s our fiesta. He let me come to his games, after his games we eat balut. There were times that sometimes I couldn’t go to his games because sometimes his games are weekdays I have school. The longer I watch my father play the more I want to be like him. I want to be with him until the end. We had many plans in the future but my didn’t make it. November 12, 2:00 our fiesta is coming close our house is near the Carnival. My father got killed on the spot by a man who had a differences in his mind. My father’s brother woke me up, he told me that to come with him in the hospital. I wear a jacket due to the coldness. The moment we arrive in the hospital, I was wondering why some of my father’s friends are there. I saw a hint of my father’s head broken and full of blood. I thought my father was in a accident that he will be okay soon but reality is harsh. The moment I heard that my father is dead before he arrive at the hospital. I shock I can’t even express my emotion, I was emotionless. I was shaking by fear, worries and hatred.
During the funeral many of my relatives even the one who I don’t who it is. After my father died I learn so many things even the other siblings of father from Davao city that his mother told him to keep it a secret. After the burial the family of grandmother want us to live with them. Many of my relatives against the idea but they don’t have really a choice. The moment that the burial is finished we directly go to Davao city. They help us to overcome the sadness that we felt after the death of our father. They somehow manage to heal us a little and accept the truth. After a week they transfer us to Kapalong.
Kapalong is a place that help to gain friends and boost my self-esteem. We live in the house of my grandmother’s sister. She was a kind and caring. She take care of us like her own. She portray as our mother. Sometimes she be scold us but it’s for our own good. We continue our study, I go to Dona Carmen Elementary School to continue Grade 6 and Dona Carmen High School for Grade 7. This year help me find my sport. Volleyball, by playing almost everyday recess, lunch, and after class. Day by day I improve my skill and loving volleyball. After my Grade 7 on Dona Carmen High School my aunt decide to continue our study on Davao city at a private school.. We were excited both I and my sister. For us being able to study at a private is like a dream for us that came from a rural area.
Our Lady of Fatima Academy of Davao, Inc. a catholic school. For the first day of school my classmates are friendly but I’m a little shy to communicate with them. By time pass I was able to communicate with them and have fun with them. I adjust quite fast because of the environment and I was able to build up my confidence to join the varsity. I join the badminton first along with a friend because I was so shy to join the volleyball team on my own. I was not able to join the badminton team so on my Grade 9 I join the track and field to improve my stamina because I wasn’t satisfied with my height. During every intramural I always join volleyball because maybe the coach may see my potential and I will be recruited. After the championship game in my grade 9 year we won versus the seniors. I was recruited and I didn’t hesitate to accept.
I know my life is not a interesting story but for me it is. We may have challengers but that is a test to make us stronger, to make us move forward, and create and beginning. We can help the others by guiding them to overcome the pain, the sadness and the worries that are consuming them.